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⌈ Secret Post #2132 ⌋

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Comments

Re: i'm a different person and i hate it

[(Anonymous)]

What are you doing now, other than living with your parents? Do you have job, or the prospect of one? Do you have plans for graduate school? Have you tried volunteer work, in the real world or online?

Maybe the problem isn't you, but rather the shrinking of the boundaries of your personal world, so to speak. It'll most likely take time to get your socialization skills back up to speed (I know that it's hard for me to even speak if I'm isolated for too long!), but if you expand your "boundaries" through work or study, you should find yourself beginning to form friendships again. It takes a long time to form a good friendship, too -- you might have some future friends in your acquaintance already.

Deep down I think everyone gets sick of me eventually and doesn't want to be my friend anymore.

I really doubt that that's true, but if it bothers you that much, then try to think of your faults. Do you think that you talk too much? Have you pushed friends away before? Are you pushy or aggressive so far as your personal opinions are concerned? Why wouldn't people like you?

Re: i'm a different person and i hate it

[(Anonymous)]

nayrt

Maybe the problem isn't you, but rather the shrinking of the boundaries of your personal world, so to speak.

That is a good point. I definitely feel like my social life is less active now as a professional adult compared to how it was in high school and college. Outside of school, you don't necessarily get as many opportunities to be forced together with a bunch of new people. You have your job and your neighbors, but there may not be as much turn-over as there is when you're in a new class with a new mix of classmates every semester.