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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-11-04 03:35 pm

[ SECRET POST #2133 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2133 ⌋

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Re: Am I "too fast" for people?

(Anonymous) 2012-11-04 09:30 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm of a similar persuasion as you, so here's my advice.

One, don't worry about your aunt. There are people who think like that, but those people are slut-shamers don't deserve a minute of anyone's time. If you love sex and move fast that's wonderful and you should never deny yourself. Society has been repressing women like us for too long.

Two, I came too this issue once before, I met I guy I didn't want to let go, but I knew sticking to one person wouldn't work for me. I told him how I felt, and how I worked, and he understood and and accepted that. So we got into an open relationship and it worked out well. We've been together for three years now, we live together as partners, our relationship is still open and I'm still seeing other guys too.

So, all in all, be true to your nature, you will find people who will accept your sexuality and work with it, and those are partners worth having. Be honest with this guy and yourself, and good luck.