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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-11-04 03:35 pm

[ SECRET POST #2133 ]


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Re: Am I "too fast" for people?

[personal profile] insanenoodlyguy 2012-11-04 10:18 pm (UTC)(link)
The two longest relationships I've been in (including my current one) we got physically intimate pretty soon in. Like most things with dating, it's gonna vary from person to person.

I think your best being blunt. "Hey, you know... I really think this could work with us. I want to be serious with you. I hope you feel the same."

That's independent from the sex. Though if you want to be serious and he doesn't feel the same way, a lot more then the sex could be at stake. But I think that's exactly WHY you need to get that out in the open. Probably do that before the sex since your worried that will be an issue.

That said, a girl with a well developed and healthy sexuality is something a lot of guys like so I'm guessing once he knows your full extent of sexual interest he's not going to be so put off by it so much as "oh shit hello there boner" And I think you'll know what to do when that happens.