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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-11-04 03:35 pm

[ SECRET POST #2133 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2133 ⌋

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cloud_riven: Ghost Trick's Kamila sitting on a couch next to a pile of wrapped Christmas presents. (Kamila)

Re: Am I "too fast" for people?

[personal profile] cloud_riven 2012-11-05 01:12 am (UTC)(link)
Ugh. Your aunt is wrong. For herself, and her boundaries, of course her opinion is fitting and cool.

But sex is not a prize. You're not a prize. The idea of earning sex after some arbitrary goal or period of time is stupid. Obviously folk are going to have their assumptions and perceive things about you about this, but why don't you just talk to your boyfriend about this? You want a serious relationship, so isn't communication one of the big things about it?

Anyone who thinks you have no merits because you're "loose" is a toolbag.
Edited (typo. ah fuck. i don't usually edit out typos. just aUGH) 2012-11-05 01:13 (UTC)