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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-11-04 03:35 pm

[ SECRET POST #2133 ]


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Re: Am I "too fast" for people?

[personal profile] citrinesunset 2012-11-05 05:02 am (UTC)(link)
Some people would see you as "too fast" because not only do people differ a lot in how they feel about sex and intimacy, but a lot of people are judgmental about how other people choose to have sex.

But honestly, would you want to be with someone who didn't respect you over something like this? Or whose own ideas about sex differed so much from yours?

I do agree with the people who have recommended being open with this guy, though. And I don't think having sex soon should be a problem, but I do think it'd be good to try to do non-sexual things that encourage intimacy, as well. If you guys are doing a variety of special things together, I think that will help send a message that you're not just interested in sex.