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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-11-13 05:26 pm

[ SECRET POST #2142 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2142 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2012-11-14 02:16 am (UTC)(link)
I think what she means is, if you start having sex in your teens, you're more likely to have gotten your awkward how-do-I-do-things phase out of your system and have your sealegs when you're an adult, in relationships with other adults, not wanting to seem inexperienced. That's my take on it, anyway; early 20s with very little sexual experience here but I'm not about to go sharing my body with nobodies just so I can feel less awkward around emotional partners. People worth sticking with ought to just laugh off the weird stuff with you, I'd say.
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[personal profile] toshi_hakari 2012-11-14 03:24 pm (UTC)(link)
Well, my mom had a friend who told me how, after she got divorced from her husband and started new relationships, she was nervous before having sex each and every time and did tell me that it was awkward for her.

For some people, it is awkward each and every time, because every relationship is different. It's not like you're having sex with the same person over and over again.

I also know some ex-virgins who were comfortable having sex for the first time. Personality + attitude is the magic formula, not experience.
Edited 2012-11-14 15:25 (UTC)