[ SECRET POST #2142 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2142 ⌋

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Notes:

Sorry it's late!

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Comments

[(Anonymous)]

Sex is a skill. No one is born knowing how to do it well. No one does it well automatically when they meet their True Love. It takes practice, like all physical activities.

Everyone's first drawing is going to suck. Everyone's first attempt at a sport or a musical instrument is going to suck. (And probably hurt, because those things are physical *still feels early guitar string cuts on my fingertips*). It takes years of being terrible to get really good at things, sometimes.

I'm not the poster you're replying to, but in my experience, yeah, the first few years I was having sex were kind of clumsy and bad, because I was inexperienced and didn't know what I was doing, and my partners were also inexperienced and didn't know what they were doing.

Experience is what leads to getting good, and sometimes, really fucking great. There aren't shortcuts, though.

[(Anonymous)]

Ah, but with sex, a really large part of what makes is good is if all people involved are comfortable enough to talk about what they like. And that's got nothing to do with experience and skill and everything to do with how comfortable the participants are with their bodies.

Of course, it's also not something that automatically comes with age, but it's not something you have to practice either.

[(Anonymous)]

It does have something to do with experience and skill, after all if you've never experienced something you don't know to say that you like it, and if your partner hasn't got much experience they won't necessarily know to do things, or how to do them well. Yes, a lot of it is about being able to express yourself frankly and freely, but there's still a considerable amount of experimenting to be done at first, and not all of it will result in particularly enjoyable encounters.

[(Anonymous)]

Yes, experience is awesome. You gather a host of skills and technique that are just hard to practice without a partner. You figure yourself out better than you can just by masturbating because you know what other people touching you feels like.

But frankly, once you're communicating - the experimenting is generally not that awful. At least in my experience, it has been pretty fun.