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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-11-15 05:19 pm

[ SECRET POST #2144 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2144 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2012-11-15 11:29 pm (UTC)(link)
Okay, OP, there's a chance you invented this (I don't wanna call you a fake or a troll, but we all know how many people make up stories in this place), but I'll give you a chance:

First of all, how close were the two of you? Maybe the easier way is, like some people said, choosing one of the options. Just pretend nothing happened and stay like brothers, or keep desiring him from a distance.
But if you can, you should try talking to him. Would your brother listen? I mean, he doesn't needs to want you in that way, but you two don't need to fuck up your relationship for that reason.
I've been in a similar situation with my younger brother, but in the other side, and, although I've made it quite clear that I don't like him that way, I love him too much to just stop talking or treating him weirdly (not gonna lie, though: it did bothered me at first. Mostly cause he's like a son to me, but anyway). I acknowledge his feeling as I acknowledge the feelings of other people attracted to me (or even in love), and I really think conversation is the best solution WHEN the person is ready to listen to you.

Maybe he even wants the same? Idk, whatever works for you. I wish you luck.
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[personal profile] ziltoidianrapture 2012-11-15 11:47 pm (UTC)(link)
I've been in a similar situation with my younger brother [...] I love him too much to just stop talking or treating him weirdly, mostly cause he's like a son to me

Either your brother is way, way younger than you are, or your relationship with him is weird. Or in this case.. both?

(Anonymous) 2012-11-15 11:55 pm (UTC)(link)
Same anon. Nope, not that younger. Just had to take care of him a lot when we were children. Guess it can be weird because I matured much faster than him? It's not too weird, though. Anyway. If it sounds disturbing it's mostly because I worded it badly =/.

(Anonymous) 2012-11-16 04:11 am (UTC)(link)
Or because real-life incest is disturbing in and of itself.

(Anonymous) 2012-11-16 04:56 am (UTC)(link)
Not everything is black and white, buddy. No one is being abusive towards anyone here, so there's no need to be rude.
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[personal profile] nyvz 2012-11-16 12:07 am (UTC)(link)
I second the talking. I don't assume this is troll because I know people who have been in this situation IRL, including identical twin brothers. Talk to him, let him know what's going on and that you're struggling with it, see how he feels and if he is no go, then you have to accept that and his feelings. No matter what, it is going to affect your relationship, so if this is something negative to him, then the best thing to do is some damage control and try to maintain what you can.
If this is something he wants as well, also be careful because the romantic aspect can seriously change things around, especially if things go badly. Take this very delicately and be understanding and listen.
Wish you luck, OP.