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⌈ Secret Post #2147 ⌋

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Comments

Re: Queer dating advice

[(Anonymous)]

Scene bars can be really difficult for getting to know a new community.

Small towns can be tough, but there may be other meet-ups happening. Book groups are often great - usually just an excuse to socialise. There might also be a lesbian message board or social site for your wider area which will cover your town. The great thing about lesbian communities (she said, generalising wildly) is that you'll nearly always find there are mother hens out there somewhere who will be organising things and trying to make newcomers feel welcome.

It's hard to make the move to go out and try stuff like that when one is used to flying under the radar. But I think trying to find local activity groups may be a better way to get comfortable than jumping straight into net dating (from what you're saying).

Without giving anything away, can you say what general bit of the world you're in? The lesbian grapevine is a wonderful thing. Somebody might have links for ya.