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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-11-19 05:26 pm

[ SECRET POST #2148 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2148 ⌋

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Re: Anyone else have things they're pissed off about but not for the reasons people think?

(Anonymous) 2012-11-20 06:51 am (UTC)(link)
I don't look like a lesbian and IDGI.
I have short hair.
No make up
No boyfriend
Jeans are awesome.
Rainbow. Bracelet

But no-one ever thinks I'm a lesbian. People assume I'm asexual before they think "oh she must be gay" and I'm just what???????

I basically dread this because it means I am repeatedly 'coming out' to people and it drives me nuts.
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Re: Anyone else have things they're pissed off about but not for the reasons people think?

[personal profile] citrinesunset 2012-11-20 11:10 am (UTC)(link)
I don't get it, either! It seems like straight women have people assume they're gay all the time, but no one has ever openly assumed I'm anything other than a straight, cis woman. I have a masculine haircut, I don't wear makeup, and I have a pretty androgynous style. Don't get me wrong--I think making assumptions about people's sexuality based on hair length is really stupid. But I feel like I must be doing something wrong....

Re: Anyone else have things they're pissed off about but not for the reasons people think?

(Anonymous) 2012-11-20 06:19 pm (UTC)(link)
i keep hoping they'll just ask casually "so you got a boyfriend or girlfriend?" or get curious and ask so i'm not awkwardly "YOU KNOW I"M GY RIGHT WELL NOW YOU DO"

and then i can casually just say "no, no girlfriend"

problem solved.

but noooooooo, i must be asexual???? how do people even get this. i comment when i see a nice girl. does male disinterest = not sexual at all or??