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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-11-19 05:26 pm

[ SECRET POST #2148 ]


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elialshadowpine: (Default)

Re: Anyone else have things they're pissed off about but not for the reasons people think?

[personal profile] elialshadowpine 2012-11-20 03:09 pm (UTC)(link)
TW EDs and numbers and sizes and shit


Aw fuck honey. :(

I sympathize. When I first got put on birth control, I did not react well to the formulation I was scripted. I ended up basically throwing up anything I ate. The only things I could keep down were frozen waffles and Dannon brand yogurt "smoothies". I lost over 20lbs in a month, and I look back at photos of myself from then and realize I was fucking gaunt and sickly looking.

Of course EVERYONE either told me I needed to "keep up the good work!!!" or "wow you look awesome". And enough people told me I still needed to lose more weight even though I was a size 4-6 had me trying to cut down on what I ate even still. >_<

Soo, I really really fucking hear you. I was very worried about my health but, hell, people basically even told me to ignore it because I was losing weight and that was good and obviously losing weight was worth whatever might be wrong. (Which in my case was just that the hbc didn't agree with me but SO VERY FUCKED UP.)

If you're able to see a doc I would just to make sure everything is okay. I see you mention in one of your comments that it might be thyroid, and I was thinking that too. Thyroid can be checked with some blood tests and is really probably worth doing sooner rather than later. If you're eating within a normal range (for your weight range I would estimate 1500 calories) and still losing... you really really do want to see a doc.

Good luck. *hugs offered*
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Re: Anyone else have things they're pissed off about but not for the reasons people think?

[personal profile] forgottenjester 2012-11-20 05:58 pm (UTC)(link)
Oh wow, that sounds absolutely horrible. It's just so fucked up. The sad part is that most of these people aren't bad people, they just have no idea what they're saying does or means.

Thank you for telling me this and for the advice. *hugs*
elialshadowpine: (Default)

Re: Anyone else have things they&#39;re pissed off about but not for the reasons people think?

[personal profile] elialshadowpine 2012-11-20 07:04 pm (UTC)(link)
Yeah -- they were all very nice people who genuinely thought they were being supportive! The amount of internalized fatphobia is just, wow. :-\