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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-11-21 06:36 pm

[ SECRET POST #2150 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2150 ⌋

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Re: bleeh sex problems

[personal profile] fingalsanteater 2012-11-22 02:16 am (UTC)(link)
You still a virgin in the "penis in vagina" sense? Because if you are used to your tiny fingers versus his larger fingers, yeah, makes sense that it would hurt. You are shoving something larger than what you are used to in you. But, here's some tmi about my sex life I'm sure you'd love to hear: I'm not a virgin and sometimes it hurts when my SO fingers me, especially if I'm not very... lubricated. Bony fingers, especially someone else's larger ones can be uncomfortable. If you have trouble with nervousness, I'd say that the combination of his larger fingers and your, likely, lack of lubrication is adding to your pain.

My recommendation? First, practice stretching yourself to fit two fingers. Second, try to get more comfortable with your boyfriend being near your vagina. Maybe let him watch you masturbate, or let him rub your clit while you finger yourself. I don't know if you guys are interesting in cunnilingus, but maybe try too. Eta: Oh, yeah. Make sure you guys talk about things. That his fingers hurt and sometimes you are uncomfortable, etc. The worst thing people can do in situations like this is keep quiet. Talk through it so it can get better, instead of letting your dissatisfaction and unease fester.

Here's a problem some people have (including me, ngl): They want to go from 0 to full on two-fingers fucking very quickly. But, if you aren't stretched and lubricated, you aren't going to have a good time. Take it slow and don't be disappointed that your mind and body need time to adjust to new experiences.
Edited 2012-11-22 02:21 (UTC)

Re: bleeh sex problems

(Anonymous) 2012-11-22 04:01 am (UTC)(link)
All of this.