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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-11-24 03:23 pm

[ SECRET POST #2153 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2153 ⌋

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Re: weird internet happenstances

(Anonymous) 2012-11-24 11:25 pm (UTC)(link)
I have an online friend I'm trying to distance myself from (even though I've actually met them IRL and got along fine in general) because they seem to feed on gossip about other online friends. Even when it's people I don't know, it makes me pretty uncomfortable, knowing that her and her roommate basically amuse themselves by digging through fandom friends' lj/twitters/tumblrs and making fun of them.. I'm 80% sure she doesn't do that shit on my posts, but what if she does?

I created a special "everybody but her" friends filter on my LJ/DW and went back to edit super-personal entries so she couldn't access them. This girl is just looking for drama, I swear..
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Re: weird internet happenstances

[personal profile] diet_poison 2012-11-25 12:01 am (UTC)(link)
Wow...that's definitely concerning. =/ Have you talked to her about it? (I get that that may or may not be a good option, I don't really know much about your situation)

(Sorry if it's weird that I responded to this but not OP...that was just...wow, I didn't know what to say)

Re: weird internet happenstances

(Anonymous) 2012-11-25 12:29 am (UTC)(link)
Nah, though I think one of our mutual online friends know that she & roomie have discussed shit about her. It's kind of ..Mean Girls-y?

All I know is that it's made me trust her so much less. I used to talk about everything and anything with her, now I just stick to fandom stuff or fairly superficial stuff.
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Re: weird internet happenstances

[personal profile] diet_poison 2012-11-25 02:45 am (UTC)(link)
Man, that sucks. It really sucks to realize something about a friend that makes you not trust them. Probably wise in your case though.

Re: weird internet happenstances

(Anonymous) 2012-11-25 11:28 am (UTC)(link)
I went through that with someone for a long time. They were the maintainer of the biggest and most active community for my fandom so I couldn't unfriend them unless I wanted to get blocked there and have her spread stuff about me. It took me 4 years to finally cut all ties to her now that that fandom is dead. She hasn't been able to read any of my really personal stuff for so long that I don't have to worry what she says about me and there's so few people that know me left in that circle that I don't care what anyone thinks.