[ SECRET POST #2156 ]

[case]

⌈ Secret Post #2156 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

01.


__________________________________________________



02.


__________________________________________________



03.


__________________________________________________



04.


__________________________________________________



05.


__________________________________________________



06.


__________________________________________________



07.


__________________________________________________



08.


__________________________________________________



09.


__________________________________________________



10.


__________________________________________________



11.


__________________________________________________



12.


__________________________________________________



13.


__________________________________________________



14.


__________________________________________________



15.


__________________________________________________



16.



__________________________________________________



17.


__________________________________________________














Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 03 pages, 054 secrets from Secret Submission Post #308.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Comments

[(Anonymous)]

:(

Virtual hugs for you, OP.

I ..wish I knew what I was doing right, because I seem to have way too many fandom friends (who sadly all live ridiculously far away so meeting them in real life tends to be a problem). I was thinking about the ones who've stayed behind, and become closer friends, and realized that really it all comes down to relating something non-fandomy to them. We talk about our lives, our annoyances, our relationship woes, politics.. We just relate about other things than fandom, so even when I leave behind fandom, I no longer think about X fandom friend as "that girl from the UK who loves A/B pairing", but as "that girl from the UK who loves A/B pairing, and is very left-wing, and passionate about history".

Of course, there's still some people who I don't mind losing touch with, simply because we didn't talk that much, and I understand some people want to be very private with their interactions online. It also helps that for the most part, my preferences in fandoms, even when small, tend to be shared by others who like the canon.

I'll also say this: other people's friendships may appear wonderful and ever-lasting from the outside looking in, but I've also had some experiences where fandom friendships have been fraught with unpleasant drama and weirdness.

I'll stop rambling now..