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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-12-03 06:39 pm

[ SECRET POST #2162 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2162 ⌋

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Re: Non-Fandom Secrets

(Anonymous) 2012-12-04 12:55 am (UTC)(link)
I love my boyfriend, but I think the sex is sort of boring.

Not bad, mind you, but rather repetitive.

He's really vanilla (I'm not) and I respect that, but man it does sort of get to me.

The thing is, he seems completely satisfied with the way it is. Its also really difficult to discuss the subject with him, because he already has hang-ups about sex; because his emotionally abusive ex used to deny him sex after getting him all hot and bothered.

*sigh*

Re: Non-Fandom Secrets

(Anonymous) 2012-12-04 01:38 am (UTC)(link)
You're probably gonna have to talk to him about this eventually.

Re: Non-Fandom Secrets

(Anonymous) 2012-12-04 01:54 am (UTC)(link)
I do. It's just the how that is difficult mainly. And it sees that when I mention it we end up doing like 1 or 2 creative things, and then we go back to routine.

Re: Non-Fandom Secrets

(Anonymous) 2012-12-04 01:40 am (UTC)(link)
Maybe later on he will comfortable enough with sex that you could just go all "hey, want to try something new?"

Re: Non-Fandom Secrets

(Anonymous) 2012-12-04 01:58 am (UTC)(link)
We've been together for quite a while now. The insecurity on his end has gotten better, but I still need to talk about it diplomatically.

It's not that he'd never be open to something new, it's just that a) it always seems to come from my end and b) it tends to just be that one time when we do. Also, there's stuff that he's just not into and I respect that. But it leaves me with limited resources to work with.