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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-12-05 05:21 pm

[ SECRET POST #2164 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2164 ⌋

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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 02 pages, 044 secrets from Secret Submission Post #309.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Re: OP

(Anonymous) 2012-12-06 12:31 am (UTC)(link)
If you're seriously going to people complaining about how they're "taking it out on you" because they want to complain about asshole cis people, then yeah, you kind of deserve to get yelled at.

If you're not an asshole, guess what? They're not talking about you. Nobody is blaming you. You are not the victim here. Not. Everything. Is. About. You.

Re: OP

(Anonymous) 2012-12-06 02:10 am (UTC)(link)
Not OP

How would you know whether or not people have been nasty to him directly?

Also, if I start shouting about ugly useless queer women or something, would you tell the people who got offended that they shouldn't because it's not about them, personally?

Re: OP

(Anonymous) 2012-12-06 02:42 am (UTC)(link)
1) Because I've seen people react this exact way before, and it NEVER went down the way they claimed. White, straight, cis people LOVE to make it about them every time someone complains about oppression, and then they have the nerve to act like victims when they rightfully get told to shut the fuck up.

2) No, because guess what? Queer women are actually oppressed.

Re: WHAT?

(Anonymous) 2012-12-06 02:59 am (UTC)(link)
But it was just about the ugly useless queer women. Not you.

I mean, if you are taking it so personally, maybe you are one of the ugly useless queers.

Gonna have a double standard, gonna be called on it.

Re: OP

(Anonymous) 2012-12-06 03:18 am (UTC)(link)
I think it'd be awesome if people have been nasty to the OP directly, because the OP is clearly a whining buttmunch.

If you start shouting about ugly useless queer women, it will leave more queer women for the rest of us. Which will be awesome, because you obviously don't deserve any.

(oooh, looky, I have been nasty to you AND the OP! Directly! Two points to me. Neener neener.)

Re: OP

(Anonymous) 2012-12-06 03:59 am (UTC)(link)
lol neener neener neener?

...yeaah really doing yourself a favor there.

also....um did you ever consider the fact that this is a SECRET? Implying that the OP doesn't normally go around saying 'pity me' to all their friends. Quite a few people make secrets because they feel like they can't say this normally. I find it more likely that they have just sat back and taken all this until they couldn't stand it anymore-but they don't want to deal with a bunch of people telling them they should die for saying it. Because you know having a bunch of people sending you "oh kill yourself you privileged fuck you have no problems" repeatedly actually does have an effect on one's life.

Re: OP

(Anonymous) 2012-12-06 04:43 am (UTC)(link)
F!S NEVER considers that the secret is a secret for a reason. It's so basic a concept it's become practically meta.
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Re: OP

[personal profile] fuchsiascreams 2012-12-07 05:56 am (UTC)(link)
Agreed. A lot of people act like it is impossible to be bullied or have any type of hardships unless you are queer, trans, ethnic, disabled, or a woman. Like it isn't possible to be bullied or have issues even if you're a white, straight, cis, able-bodied male.

Fact: Minorities do not have a monopoly on being bullied.

Re: OP

(Anonymous) 2012-12-06 04:39 am (UTC)(link)
You're kind of making up a situation that's going against what the OP directly said: that they're getting blamed for the crimes of homophobic, transphobic people who happen to be straight and cis just because they also happen to be straight and cis.

I can only imagine people who aren't too familiar with many GLBTQ people think that this doesn't happen. It's pretty common for any marginalized minority to have a faction that actively hates the majority and blames the entirety of it for the actions of some.