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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-12-10 06:48 pm

[ SECRET POST #2169 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2169 ⌋

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Re: What was the meanest thing someone has ever said to you, FS?

[personal profile] diet_poison 2012-12-11 04:46 pm (UTC)(link)
Yeah. Part of it is that he's extremely immature. He's 20 but I think he's years behind on "learning how to treat people decently". I'm just kind of waiting it out, and not pursuing any kind of real relationship with him right now. He blocked me on Facebook like, a year ago, over a really weird thing and I'm just kind of like "ok". I try to avoid him for the most part when we're at home together and don't really talk to him, not because I don't love him, but because I'm not ready to try to form a real relationship with him right now, because I know he will treat me like shit at the drop of a hat, and when I try pointing this out to him he keeps trying to turn it on me and denies it. In a few years when he's more mature, I'm hoping.

Another part of it is that when we were younger I used to be really bossy to him. That's kind of part of my personality but I've really tempered it over the years (through my own maturing process - I'm 22 now). But he still reacts as though that were happening, gets really defensive, etc. like if he leaves a mess in the bathroom and I ask him to clean it out so I can shower he perceives that as me trying to get all up in his business, boss him around, control him, etc. and responds accordingly. =/

Re: What was the meanest thing someone has ever said to you, FS?

(Anonymous) 2012-12-11 05:13 pm (UTC)(link)
Ouch. Good luck.
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Re: What was the meanest thing someone has ever said to you, FS?

[personal profile] diet_poison 2012-12-11 05:24 pm (UTC)(link)
Thanks, anon. :)