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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-12-11 06:48 pm

[ SECRET POST #2170 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2170 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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02.
[Nikita (CW)]


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03.
[The Pirates! Band of Misfits]


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04.
[Jonathan Strange & Mr. Norrell]


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05.
[Star Wars Expanded Universe]


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06.
[Buffy the Vampire Slayer / Angel the Series]


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07.
[Avengers/MCU, Steve Rogers and Tony Stark]


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08.
[Go On]


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09.
[Star Trek: Deep Space Nine]


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10.
[Sailor Moon]


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11.
[Persona 4]


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12.
[Kili/Tauriel, The Hobbit]


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13.
[How to Destroy Angels/Mariqueen Maandig]


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14.
[Glee]


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15.
[Les Revenants]


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16.
[The Walking Dead]


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17.
[The Real Adventures of Jonny Quest]


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18.
[Gyakuten Saiban/Ace Attorney]


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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 03 pages, 060 secrets from Secret Submission Post #310.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 1 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Re: I think I need some serious help....

(Anonymous) 2012-12-12 01:05 am (UTC)(link)
You will be okay. Trust me. You will be okay.

First off, do yourself a favor, get away, if only for a day or two, and put things into perspective.

I sort of acted like a psycho at 22 because I had some serious RL shit going down, too, that was just not meshing with my life and expectations. Sometimes just identifying what it is that's triggering you into these fits of rage/psychosis/whatever helps to correct the problem. With me, it was my career goals and how they were stressing me out to the point where I would scream at my sister for stupid shit and get into fights with my dad.

Once I stopped applying for the job, I evened out and matured. Your early twenties are confusing as fuck, and sometimes harder than your teens, because suddenly the world has bigger expectations of you acting like an adult and assuming adult responsibilities, and it's hard to navigate.

Just remember that about 90% of us have been where you are now. Everything will end up okay, I promise.

You just have to figure out what it is that's setting you off, and see what you can do about it. Whatever it is, pursuing it is not worth this, whether it be a friend, significant other, job, move to a new place, whatever.