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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-12-17 07:26 pm

[ SECRET POST #2176 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2176 ⌋

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Re: ...I don't know what to do FS

(Anonymous) 2012-12-18 01:18 am (UTC)(link)
Personally, I'm a little creeped that you took it upon yourself to confront the ex-boyfriend about his posts. This is the sort of thing where the appropriate action is to take it up with the person you know, rather than being the person who went behind her back because you have problems with her friends.

But now that he's exposed himself as also being a creep, you still need to talk to her about the way he acted, and the fears you have and then TRUST HER. And for god sakes, don't entertain the notion of flying up there all "gotta protect my woman (from her friend)!"

Re: ...I don't know what to do FS

(Anonymous) 2012-12-18 01:32 am (UTC)(link)
Okay, speaking as a Facebook user myself, that things said on there get pretty public. And if OP is implying that they were on accquaintence level with this person, they probably thought it was no big deal. They seemed more curious than trying to intimidate.

don't entertain the notion of flying up there all "gotta protect my woman (from her friend)

Also wtf is up with this statement? It's not white knighting if you're getting the hint that someone you care about is being stalked by a creep. One of my good friends had an abusive stalking ex like this, and yeah, it's normal to get protective and worried for your friend's safety when you don't know what that ex is capable of.