[ SECRET POST #2176 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2176 ⌋

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Comments

Re: ...I don't know what to do FS

[diet_poison]

Wow, first of all, he sounds like a grade-A douchebag. =(

I might be the only one who doesn't think he sounds threatening, just entitled, moronic, and possessive. But if you think he does seem threatening, go with your gut. And EITHER WAY definitely tell your gf everything that happened, for her sake and the sake of the relationship.

Frankly the wall comment was kind of inappropriate imo because he knew she was taken and it obviously sounded like he was trying to rekindle the relationship.

But you haven't said much about your gf's motives. Does she still have feelings for him? If she is safe, then you should just let things play out, because if she isn't really loyal, then you can't control that without becoming possessive yourself, and you will know she isn't the kind of person you want to be with. But if she is? then she will put him in his place. And I am all for trying to be friends even with exes but if she maintains an inappropriately close friendship with an ex despite your misgivings then she is breaking your trust imo. She needs to be really clear with him and draw lines. (After that behavior, if it were me, I'd draw VERY thick lines, and keep my distance for a while. He needs to know that she is no longer available to him and that treating her girlfriend like shit is not acceptable to her in any way.) Speaking of which, if she doesn't think his behavior towards you is a big deal, I'd also see that as a red flag.

Sorry for the brain vomit =/ take it or leave it, those are just my thoughts.

Best of luck, OP.