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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-12-18 06:35 pm

[ SECRET POST #2177 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2177 ⌋

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[personal profile] truxillogical 2012-12-19 06:07 am (UTC)(link)
In terms of ego, it's not just the male geeks (as the secret shows).

I think a lot of geeks, myself included, grow up in that social dead zone. Maybe you look awkward, probably act awkward, are seen as weird for the attitudes, if not the hobbies, that make you a geek.

And you get this idea, even subconsciously, that to be a Geek, one must Suffer. A football player can't be a Geek--they're a Jock. A pretty girl can't be a geek--she's a Prep. Or maybe just a Pretty Girl. Or--gasp!--Popular. In fact, if she's pretty, she's probably Popular, and we have this kneejerk reaction left over from our school days that says Popular People are the Enemy.

It's pathetic and more or less entirely informed by lousy movies from the 80's and 90's. But it's still there for a lot of people, and usually requires becoming consciously aware of how ridiculous it is to stop thinking that way.

(Anonymous) 2012-12-19 04:57 pm (UTC)(link)
Yes, this, 100%. Movebob did an episode of The Big Picture about the geek suffering/victimhood/persecution complex and how it relates to bullying within geekdom. It came out long before the whole "fake geek girl" thing, but it's definitely relevant to it.
http://www.escapistmagazine.com/videos/view/the-big-picture/4969-Words-for-Nerds
And then he responded to the fake geek girls thing by doing a 3-part series on Supergirl that starts with a glorious rant.
http://www.escapistmagazine.com/videos/view/the-big-picture/6552-Original-Geek-Girl
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[personal profile] diet_poison 2012-12-19 10:45 pm (UTC)(link)
Thanks for posting these!