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fandomsecrets2012-12-19 06:48 pm
[ SECRET POST #2178 ]
⌈ Secret Post #2178 ⌋
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[The Bloggess]
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[The Tribe - Alice&Lex]
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[The Perks of Being a Wallflower]
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[Inception]
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OP
(Anonymous) 2012-12-20 02:05 am (UTC)(link)Re: OP
(Anonymous) 2012-12-20 04:05 am (UTC)(link)The biggest adjustment came when he had top surgery and started on testosterone. His voice changed. His shape changed. He grew some butt ugly facial hair for a little while. But when I looked at him, really looked, I still saw the person I fell in love with.
As far as sex goes, we obviously have some different circumstances. One thing I'd suggest is going to xtube and doing a search for ftm blowjob to get an idea of what to expect the T to do to his nethers. One thing that made things a little difficult for us was that X is a guy who likes women and sometimes he wants to put on his strap-on and fuck me. I'm not a huge fan of that but it's not all -- or even most -- of what our sex life is. And as I mentioned before, the oral is FABULOUS (if you like eating pussy).
I'm assuming that your SO is a guy attracted to guys. If you want to try to stay together, you'll want to talk to him and find out what he's looking for out of a sexual relationship. What he's willing to experience, what he's NOT willing to do -- and the same for you.
But staying realistic here, if he starts to transition, you're in for a much harder road than I was. I went from looking like part of a "lesbo" couple in the south to looking like half a straight couple. You -- especially if there's any PDA involved in your relationship -- will go from looking straight to looking gay, and I KNOW that's scary. I'm not going to say that if you love this person you owe it to him try, but I will say that if you loved her, you owe it to him to stop, think, and look at every angle before you make a sudden decision out of fear in the heat of the moment.
I TOTALLY wish you the best, man.