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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-12-19 06:48 pm

[ SECRET POST #2178 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2178 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Leverage]


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[The Bloggess]


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[Jahmene Douglas/Nicole Scherzinger and James Arthur/Nicole - UK XFactor 2012]


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[Left 4 Dead]


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[Community]


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[The Tribe - Alice&Lex]


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[The Perks of Being a Wallflower]


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[Bioshock Infinite]


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[Inception]


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[Cassandra Clare]


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[Homestuck, MS Paint Adventures]


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[Disney's Sleeping Beauty]


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[Homestuck]


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[xxxHOLiC]


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[Sherlock]


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[Boktai]


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Re: OP

(Anonymous) 2012-12-20 04:05 am (UTC)(link)
He's pretty much the same person he always was. He got a little more outgoing, a little more confident because he felt better in his own skin, but it's not like his overall personality up and changed.

The biggest adjustment came when he had top surgery and started on testosterone. His voice changed. His shape changed. He grew some butt ugly facial hair for a little while. But when I looked at him, really looked, I still saw the person I fell in love with.

As far as sex goes, we obviously have some different circumstances. One thing I'd suggest is going to xtube and doing a search for ftm blowjob to get an idea of what to expect the T to do to his nethers. One thing that made things a little difficult for us was that X is a guy who likes women and sometimes he wants to put on his strap-on and fuck me. I'm not a huge fan of that but it's not all -- or even most -- of what our sex life is. And as I mentioned before, the oral is FABULOUS (if you like eating pussy).

I'm assuming that your SO is a guy attracted to guys. If you want to try to stay together, you'll want to talk to him and find out what he's looking for out of a sexual relationship. What he's willing to experience, what he's NOT willing to do -- and the same for you.

But staying realistic here, if he starts to transition, you're in for a much harder road than I was. I went from looking like part of a "lesbo" couple in the south to looking like half a straight couple. You -- especially if there's any PDA involved in your relationship -- will go from looking straight to looking gay, and I KNOW that's scary. I'm not going to say that if you love this person you owe it to him try, but I will say that if you loved her, you owe it to him to stop, think, and look at every angle before you make a sudden decision out of fear in the heat of the moment.

I TOTALLY wish you the best, man.