[ SECRET POST #2181 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2181 ⌋

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Comments

Re: I want to break up with him

[(Anonymous)]

Run.

He sounds terrifying. Pretty much everything you described is emotional manipulation. Okay maybe he thinks he's 'helping' you, but the fact that he won't actually listen to your opinions is a blaring alarm.

Get out now. Do you have friends or family nearby? Go to them. Find a group of support that doesn't include him. Make sure that you fully explain how you feel and the fact that you two are over then cut loose and run. Avoid him for a couple of weeks, if not longer, until he gets the message. Make a clean break.

Re: I want to break up with him

[(Anonymous)]

It doesn't feel like this is going to work. I'm such an idiot to have done this.

Re: I want to break up with him

[(Anonymous)]

NAYRT

No no, you'll get out of this. You're not an idiot. Find a support group, friends, family, anything, and leave. Pack up and leave without looking back, never let him into your life again. Don't answer when he calls, don't open your door, avoid him completely. If you can, move, go to a different city. If at any point, you're feeling scared and threatened, don't hesitate to go to the police. Get a restraining order if you have to.

Look here, they certainly have some tips:
http://www.safe4all.org/news/item?item_id=41211
http://www.womenslaw.org/index.php

Stay safe.

Re: I want to break up with him

[(Anonymous)]

(Earlier anon)

this is in no way your fault. You thinking it is shows how unhealthy this relationship has gotten- and this kind of thing can happen to anyone- you are not remotely alone in this.

And as for not working? Better to do what's difficult than to keep quiet and spend years regretting.