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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-12-22 03:14 pm

[ SECRET POST #2181 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2181 ⌋

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Re: I want to break up with him

(Anonymous) 2012-12-22 11:44 pm (UTC)(link)
If you want out, you want out. He's trying to turn you into this fragile dependent being you're not anymore, and that's not healthy. Don't answer his calls, tell your friends you're not together anymore period (in case he tries to get them on his side), cut him off completely.

I hope it'll get better for you. *hugs*

Re: I want to break up with him

(Anonymous) 2012-12-23 12:32 am (UTC)(link)
*hugs* Thank you.

He attributes my "growth" to his help and thinks I'll crumble without him. I think he might be genuinely worried about me, but I just keep saying no and he keeps telling me to give him another chance and reconsider.

I don't know why I keep talking about it. You're right. A clean break is the only way I can do this, even though it feels impossible.

Re: I want to break up with him

(Anonymous) 2012-12-23 12:39 am (UTC)(link)
You're welcome. Please, stay safe, anon!!!
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Re: I want to break up with him

[personal profile] insanenoodlyguy 2012-12-23 08:39 am (UTC)(link)
It is the only way. I assume from how you talk you aren't living with him. this is good. You contact him once. You tell him it's done, not to talk to you, not to come see you.

If he has a key, change the locks if you think he'll stalk you. But do not entertain the idea of anything but exclusion. Anything less is something he'll try to latch onto.