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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-12-22 03:14 pm

[ SECRET POST #2181 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2181 ⌋

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tabaqui: (Default)

Re: I want to break up with him

[personal profile] tabaqui 2012-12-22 11:45 pm (UTC)(link)
This dude sounds fairly creepy, to be honest. Tell him you're done, you are *not* in love, you don't want to see him anymore. Then *don't see him any more*. Block him from your FB or whatever, take his number off your phone - delete him from your life and if he persists in hounding you, get either friends or family to back you up, or go to the authorities.

Yeesh. Sorry. Might be a slightly over-the-top reaction, but your description of him gives me the heebie-jeebies big time.
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Re: I want to break up with him

[personal profile] elaminator 2012-12-23 12:00 am (UTC)(link)
Considering anon's description, I'm not entirely sure this is an overreaction. He does sound unstable and potentially dangerous. Break up with him but be careful anon!

Re: I want to break up with him

(Anonymous) 2012-12-23 12:52 am (UTC)(link)
I am a little frightened. Um. That's an understatement, really. He owns an AK-47.
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Re: I want to break up with him

[personal profile] elaminator 2012-12-23 01:16 am (UTC)(link)
Okay...I know there's nothing inherently wrong about owning a firearm, but I don't see any reason why someone would need an AK-47. That's not exactly a hunting rifle...

If your description of him hadn't already been disturbing I wouldn't have thought anything of it, but from the sounds of it he isn't the kind of take 'rejection' well. He's already tried to emotionally manipulate you into staying with him and it's only been two weeks; how much worse would it be later on?

I think the best thing to do is break up with him in an email or text. (If need be, block his number/email or change yours so he can't contact you again.)

You don't know how he'll react or if he'll get violent in person, and even if you break up with him over the phone...he might try to talk you into staying with him again. Hearing his voice might make you feel guilty, which might make it harder to say no and end things. So I wouldn't go there.

And if after breaking up with him he still tries to come around or get in touch with you, makes threatening remarks or won't let up, let someone know. A friend, family, hell, even the police. Better safe than sorry.
Edited (typo) 2012-12-23 01:17 (UTC)

Re: I want to break up with him

(Anonymous) 2012-12-23 04:15 am (UTC)(link)
DA

For the record, I know people who like AK-47's for the same reason people like ridiculously expensive sports cars. Sure, it's a gas guzzler and you're never going to drive that thing at anywhere near it's actual capabilities, but it's fun, it's exotic, and it gives you bragging rights. Nothing more to it than that.
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Re: I want to break up with him

[personal profile] elaminator 2012-12-23 02:43 pm (UTC)(link)
I did think of that, but only after I had posted my comment. I'd still be wary if I was the OP though, gun or not.

Re: I want to break up with him

(Anonymous) 2012-12-23 02:58 pm (UTC)(link)
da

Normally I'm fine with showcase AK-47s too. This guy is raising red flags all over the place though, and the thought of him with an AK-47 really doesn't help.
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Re: I want to break up with him

[personal profile] elaminator 2012-12-23 03:41 pm (UTC)(link)
It's really more about him than the gun itself, I think. I live where it's normal for people to have guns (so the idea isn't new to me), but the fact is you never know how someone will react. If someone is known to be unstable and upset and has done questionable things in the past, it's normal to be worried or frightened.
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Re: I want to break up with him

[personal profile] insanenoodlyguy 2012-12-23 08:41 am (UTC)(link)
Do you have someplace you can go? If you believe he's going to come after you that way you do not want to be where he thinks you are.

Re: I want to break up with him

(Anonymous) 2012-12-23 12:36 am (UTC)(link)
It's been two weeks and he says he loves me. I thought I'd found something special and now I don't know oh god
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Re: I want to break up with him

[personal profile] thene 2012-12-23 01:13 am (UTC)(link)
Well if it is special, a little time apart won't ruin your lives long-term, will it? Just tell him you're ending it, cut him off and see how you feel in six months time. In the meantime, I'd try not to go anywhere alone if I were you.
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Re: I want to break up with him

[personal profile] tabaqui 2012-12-23 01:59 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah, two weeks is a bit soon plus? Something supposedly 'good' shouldn't cause this much anxiety. Cut him loose.