[ SECRET POST #2181 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2181 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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Comments

Re: I want to break up with him

[(Anonymous)]

OP here. I don't know if anyone will see this, but he just told me he'll let our relationship end if I have sex with him. (We haven't yet.) I don't know what to do.

Re: I want to break up with him

[manifold]

Don't. That's some Class A Manipulative Bullshit right there. Whether or not you have sex with someone should not be so they'll do something for you—it should be because you want to.

That he's pulling this kind of crap on you is an extremely, extremely bad sign. It shows he thinks coercive tactics are all right in the context of sex. Get out before it gets worse.

Re: I want to break up with him

[(Anonymous)]

I've dealt with people like that before and even if you did do it, it likely wouldn't end there, nonnie. That one thing (sleeping with him) would turn into another and another and another, and always with the promise that he'll let you go if you just do this one last thing~. You want to avoid a cycle like that at all costs. And he sounds like epically bad news, from what you've told us. Tell him no and do as the people above said and get out of that toxic relationship as soon as you can and as safely as you can, no matter what he says to try and convince you to stick around.

And if you haven't already, tell several people irl about the situation, so you're not in it alone and they're aware and can keep an eye out or back you up if you need it. Your health, happiness and safety are the top priorities. <3

Re: I want to break up with him

[(Anonymous)]

You don't need to have sex with him to end the relationship. You can just stop seeing him. You don't need him to live. You only need yourself. He sounds like an ass.

Re: I want to break up with him

[(Anonymous)]

Okay, if everything else didn't raise enough red flags, this is definitely your sign to get as much distance between you and him as you possibly can.
Whatever he did to "help" you, he didn't do it for you, he did it because you were vulnerable and he saw someone he could manipulate. Seriously, the normal reaction to "I don't want to be with you anymore" is not "Only if you have sex with me first".