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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-12-26 06:34 pm

[ SECRET POST #2185 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2185 ⌋

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Re: "Older woman" anxieties

(Anonymous) 2012-12-27 12:25 am (UTC)(link)
The important thing to remember is that relationships are not all the same because people are not all the same. Your boyfriend is dating you, not someone else who's his age (although 3 years really isn't that big of a gap) or more experienced. If you feel really insecure about the lack of experience thing, then I'd say just bring it up and talk to him about it, but if it really bothered him he wouldn't be with you. It's hard not to worry, but try not to obsess too much. And the way to be a good girlfriend is to be yourself. Trying to change yourself or the way you act to fit some abstract idea of what it means to be a good girlfriend will just end up making you miserable (and probably your boyfriend, too - he's dating you because he likes you, after all).

And do yourself a huge favor and do not read relationship blogs, as they are crap. Women's looks start to go at 28 or 29? I just... what.

Re: "Older woman" anxieties

(Anonymous) 2012-12-27 12:32 am (UTC)(link)
I just read a blog yesterday that said according to some "poll" men think women bloom in their thirties?

Maybe try reading cosmockings to remind yourself how much crap people push on women.
elaminator: (Skies of Arcadia: Aika & Fina & Vyse)

Re: "Older woman" anxieties

[personal profile] elaminator 2012-12-27 01:03 am (UTC)(link)
+1