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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-12-26 06:34 pm

[ SECRET POST #2185 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2185 ⌋

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Re: "Older woman" anxieties

[identity profile] childings.livejournal.com 2012-12-27 12:38 am (UTC)(link)
I find that when it comes to relationships, "advice" from other people, even "experts" is worth two shits

I'm 29 and I feel like I'm more attractive now than I was when I was 21, for one thing I know how to take care of myself a lot better now than I did then, my skin has cleared up, I have the money to get a proper haircut that flatters my face, I know how to dress better -- and I get a lot more compliments on my appearance now than I did then.

And yeah, four years is really not much of an age gap, it may seem like a large one now because you and your boyfriend are both young and there is a big difference between someone in their early twenties and someone in their mid-to-later twenties (you do a LOT of growing up in your twenties), but trust me, if this does end up being a long term thing, five years down the road you'll seem practically the same age.