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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-12-26 06:34 pm

[ SECRET POST #2185 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2185 ⌋

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cassandraoftroy: Chiana from Farscape, an alien with grayscale skin and hair (Default)

Re: "Older woman" anxieties

[personal profile] cassandraoftroy 2012-12-27 09:56 am (UTC)(link)
I'm five years older than my boyfriend (29 to his 24; we got together five years ago), and we were both each other's first serious, committed relationship. We adore each other, and are talking about marriage. Being the "older woman" can definitely work (and some guys even prefer that).

My romantic experience looks nothing like what you hear from the "go-out-and-date-around-a-bunch crowd," and I honestly don't comprehend that dating paradigm. This guy likes you, and is serious about you, so his approach probably doesn't have anything to do with that kind of dating philosophy either. It sounds to me like he's really into you, and that you don't have anything to worry about.

Good luck, and enjoy yourself!