[ SECRET POST #2186 ]

[case]

⌈ Secret Post #2186 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

01.


__________________________________________________



02.
[QI]


__________________________________________________



03.
[Supernatural]


__________________________________________________



04.
[Haven (SyFy)]


__________________________________________________



05.
[The Boondocks]


__________________________________________________



06.
[Steve Rogers/Tony Stark]


__________________________________________________



07.
[Doctor Who]


__________________________________________________



08.
[Twilight]


__________________________________________________



09.
[Anthony Bourdain: No Reservations]


__________________________________________________



10.
[Stephen Colbert and Audra McDonald]


__________________________________________________



11.
[Teen Wolf]


__________________________________________________



12.
[Calvin & Hobbes]


__________________________________________________



13.
[Blue Bloods]


__________________________________________________



14.
[BBC Sherlock]


__________________________________________________



15.


__________________________________________________



16.


__________________________________________________













Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 01 pages, 017 secrets from Secret Submission Post #312.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 1 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Comments

[(Anonymous)]

I'm against physical punishment for children. I was hit with broom handles, shoes, hair brushes, fists, a belt, a broken umbrella, etc, as a child. I really fucking despise physical abuse against children.

My boyfriend has a cousin that is constantly acting out. He lies, he steals, he disturpts class-and he gets hit pretty regularly. It doesn't stop him from doing the things that he does. I'm pretty sure the punishment is making him worse.

[(Anonymous)]

Sounds like he may have much deeper behavioral problems, not necessarily exacerbated by the parents or punishment though. Spanking doesn't necessarily work all the time, but I still think it can be effective in some situations. It certainly isn't the holy grail of child discipline though.

But again I think the distinction needs to be made between abuse and spanking. I suppose what I used to get would be considered abuse nowadays (bruises), but I don't feel that way because even though I had a hard time with certain issues, I still feel like I was loved and cared for, but not coddled. But I'm lucky in that respect, other people are not so fortunate as that.

[shinyhappypanic]

I agree with your post. I never did get any bruises since my parents' version of spanking was a simple hand-to-butt kind of thing.

[(Anonymous)]

This. I live in a place with rising gang violence and everybody's calling for more child beating and Jesus as the way to keep kids from joining up for a gun. But the young gangsters are very frequently among those who were beaten severely as kids and not reasoned with at all, even as they got older. Teach a kid that physical violence is how you get people to do what you want, of course the gang route seems logical. Dumbasses.

[(Anonymous)]

Yes! For me, the idea that hitting people is bad didn't sink in for the longest time because it was seen in my family as appropriate discipline. As I saw it, if my parents were allowed to hit my brother when he made them mad, why was it wrong when I did it?

[(Anonymous)]

severe beating and spanking are two completely different subjects.

[(Anonymous)]

Both involve striking someone with the intent to cause pain for displeasing you. How is a young child supposed to understand the nuances?

[diet_poison]

Not really tho. One is obviously worse than the other, but they're not different subjects. They're related because they're part of a continuum, and that should ALWAYS be kept in mind.