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⌈ Secret Post #2187 ⌋

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09. [WARNING for rape, sexual assault, gore]

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That's horrible and I'm sorry that it happened to you, anon. Don't apologize for posting about it, either. Sometimes talking about things - even to anons on the Internet - can help.

It doesn't matter that you fancied him and might have consented to sleep with him when sober. You were drunk enough that you couldn't remember the sex and, therefore, couldn't consent. He shouldn't have had sex with you. The fact that he did is not your fault, anon, and it doesn't make you a bad person. Just because you got drunk, that does not mean you consented to having sex, and it doesn't make what happened not rape.

Do you have any friends or even a counselor or some sort of third party you can talk to about it? It might help to be able to discuss it and get it out there.

I don't know how much this will help, either, but have you seen this video by Chescaleigh? What happened to her just sounds similar to what happened to you, so it might help:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1l3h8fzv-BM

And what makes you think that HE was sober enough to know that she wasn't sober enough to consent? JFC, take some responsibility for your own actions.

Unless you are the OP or the person in question, how would you know if he was sober or not? Perhaps you have some unresolved issues to work through.

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