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⌈ Secret Post #2187 ⌋

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09. [WARNING for rape, sexual assault, gore]

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If he was sober (or significantly more sober than you) it WAS rape whether or not you would have been okay with having sex with him sober. Many people get raped by people they would have been plenty willing to have sex with in different circumstances before the rape.

Fancying someone does not make it not rape, and don't let anyone tell you that you deserved what happened to you just because you'd have been willing to have sex with him in different circumstances.

IF he was just as drunk and clueless about what happened that night as you were, then it was a really scary and unfortunate mutual experience, and you guys should talk it out. BUT if he had sex with you with a clear mind while you were obviously drunk, he's a rapist and you should find some way to expose him or at least get him the fuck away from you.

You are not a failure, and you were not stupid. You were not asking for it. You did nothing wrong. Being drunk does not mean people are entitled to rape you. If the wording helps, put it this way: You didn't get yourself raped. Somebody raped you. He did it, and it's 100% his fault.

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I couldn't tell from OP's post if she is absolutely sure that this is the guy she had sex with, since she can't remember having sex. It might be a good idea to try and see if any of the other friends can say what happened during the evening without telling them any details, which might unfortunately be difficult if everyone was drunk.

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