case: (Default)
Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-12-29 02:53 pm

[ SECRET POST #2188 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2188 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

01.


__________________________________________________



02.


__________________________________________________



03.


__________________________________________________



04.


__________________________________________________



05.


__________________________________________________



06.


__________________________________________________



07.


__________________________________________________



08.


__________________________________________________



09.


__________________________________________________



10.


__________________________________________________



11.


__________________________________________________



12.


__________________________________________________



13.


__________________________________________________



14.


__________________________________________________



15.


__________________________________________________













Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 05 pages, 102 secrets from Secret Submission Post #313.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.
kittenmommy: (Default)

[personal profile] kittenmommy 2012-12-31 02:43 am (UTC)(link)

So, you have a group of angry folks who've felt ostracized, that didn't belong, and now, thanks to the internet, they find a place with people like them or close enough to it that they have a community!

But that anger is still there. And being what they are, they don't really want justice. Oh, that'd be nice, they aren't opposed to the idea, but that's not what they want more then anything. More then anything, they want REVENGE. To get even. To give some of that hurt back. And it's easy to get caught up in that anger when you have it in you yourself. Suddenly a whole community feels empowered by having it's own club and being exclusionary and coming down on those they feel that deserve their wrath. Often in the same sort of petty "they are different, fuck them" way that the world has treated them. Because having bullshit happen to you doesn't provide perspective either.


Thank you for this.

I was bullied from first grade until I graduated from high school. And it was merciless; the only thing that kept me from killing myself was the fear that I'd go to Hell. Seriously!

And so many SWJs claim that they were bullied. And I just never got that, because they seem like the biggest bullies around.

I sort of feel sorry for them now. They're still trying their damndest to be part of the Cool Kids Club.

But then again, I don't feel sorry for them at all, because I know how much being bullied hurt. And I have no desire to inflict that hurt on others, and I can't imagine how hurting others would make me or anyone else feel better.

(Anonymous) 2012-12-31 06:51 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah, I don't get that either. You'd think, if they had all this pent up rage from the violence and injustice of school, that they'd channel it towards making the world take that seriously. Because it doesn't. And it should. And there's no better therapy than fighting your own oppression.

(Anonymous) 2012-12-31 06:53 am (UTC)(link)
SA *fighting for things that would have made an actual, positive difference in your life.