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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-12-30 06:19 pm

[ SECRET POST #2189 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2189 ⌋

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[personal profile] nachtmusik 2012-12-30 11:54 pm (UTC)(link)
Mmh, I wouldn't stress out about it so much. Honestly, I'd recommend just waiting for the right person to be in a relationship with, and when you feel like you know her well enough to tell her you have this kink, just ask if she'd be willing to indulge it. Even if it's not something she's super into herself, unless it's a huge turn-off for her, she'd probably be willing to go along with it. That's how a lot of the sexual part of a relationship works, actually. The other partner may not be huge into whatever kink their lover enjoys, but they don't mind it and they enjoy how much it turns their lover on. I actually have a huge kink that is commonly looked on as gross that I was terrified to tell my boyfriend I was into, but I finally bit the bullet and told him about it, and he actually agreed to indulge me on it. So it can work out fairly easily. Trust me, though, I totally get how hard it can be to tell someone else about a kink you have that is gross to a lot of people.