[ SECRET POST #2189 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2189 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 00 pages, 084 secrets from Secret Submission Post #313.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 1 2 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ], [ 1 2 - posted twice ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Comments

[fscom]

14. http://oi50.tinypic.com/a0wj1z.jpg

[(Anonymous)]

So you want to get into fandom to find people with similar interests? That sounds fine to me, isn't that what it's there for? I don't have any particularly strong feelings about incest kink one way or the other, it doesn't do it for me but I'm not going to run away disgusted certainly.

well at least it's legible?

[(Anonymous)]

tl;dr

no seriously, I just caught something about you writing incest and being sad or something

brevity is the soul of wit; youngsters these days needing to take writing classes; yadda yadda

[(Anonymous)]

Ha, me. Also not very kinky in other ways but brother/sister pushes the right buttons. I don't have any brothers IRL, but if I did, I'm pretty sure I wouldn't want to have sex with them. I actually don't enjoy father/daughter at all because the power imbalance makes me itchy.

I also have yet to find a guy I'd be comfortable expressing this to, so I understand you very well.

[insanenoodlyguy]

I'm not sure you are in a position to call all those other dudes gross. Do you really think you are a super special person with your kink and nobody else has any reasons for theirs?

More then this though, it seems like you are way to hung up on this. This isn't a kink: It's a fetish. Like, the original definition of the word fetish which is more about obsession then another word for kink.

I mean, a relationship isn't just about the sex. 95% of the time you need to like each other in ways unrelated to sex. I mean obviously attraction is a thing, but you are giving perhaps too much thought to the wrong priorities.

I think you can find what you are looking for, mind. Try fetlife. But don't think just because somebody shares your kink/fetish that's it, or feel compelled to make it work if that's the only thing you have in common.

[(Anonymous)]

I'm female, a virgin, and have a fictional incest kink, so I sort of get you. I think I'd be fine if the guy I was dating wasn't into it, though, and you've gotta have more than just that to build a relationship on, IMO.

[nachtmusik]

Mmh, I wouldn't stress out about it so much. Honestly, I'd recommend just waiting for the right person to be in a relationship with, and when you feel like you know her well enough to tell her you have this kink, just ask if she'd be willing to indulge it. Even if it's not something she's super into herself, unless it's a huge turn-off for her, she'd probably be willing to go along with it. That's how a lot of the sexual part of a relationship works, actually. The other partner may not be huge into whatever kink their lover enjoys, but they don't mind it and they enjoy how much it turns their lover on. I actually have a huge kink that is commonly looked on as gross that I was terrified to tell my boyfriend I was into, but I finally bit the bullet and told him about it, and he actually agreed to indulge me on it. So it can work out fairly easily. Trust me, though, I totally get how hard it can be to tell someone else about a kink you have that is gross to a lot of people.

[(Anonymous)]

In what way is this a fandom secret?

[(Anonymous)]

I dunno, it sounds like a pretty good way to find people with similar kinks. I read some fic with sibling incest pairings and I'm not sure I'd be up for role play, but if I was with someone who wanted to try, I'd, at the very least, consider it.

[(Anonymous)]

look, I'm trying to be sympathetic here, I really am.

but seriously? Buck up, baby. Your kink is not only in the realm of reality, it's also a) not the worst thing out there. I know people that has more visceral reactions to watersports and z) not actually that rare.

I mean, it's not as common and Daddy/daughter, I'll give you that, but this ain't no swim-fin obsession or giantess fixation. You're not into eating shit or being set on fire and I'm just naming the ones that are legal, now.

If you look for it, you'll find it. The BDSM acronym represents an umbrella, and you have the goddamn internet. Hey, maybe you'll find someone who'll be your sister if you spank 'em a bit but when you're kinky that's what negotiation is -- compromise til you're both happy.

Finally, look inwards and examine your kink shaming. You are not just your sexuality and your sexuality is not a dangerous, volatile or inherently dirty thing. It is a part of you, and if fucking "sister" is gonna make you a happy, whole person, go for it and don't stop til you're there.

What's the alternative? Vanilla sex and hating yourself? Whatever, there are better ways to spend your time.

[(Anonymous)]

Since I seem to be the only person who read the majority of this secret so I feel compelled to reply to you. That's not my kink, so I can't help you there, but getting into fandoms to find someone whose kink that is sounds reasonable, and not weird at all. From the fandoms I know I immediately thought you should dip your toe into the Supernatural fandom - I know, I know, they're both guys. But hear me out: 1. The fandom is huge. 2. It's full of girls. 3. There is a sizable amount of gender-swap fic. 4. Since the default ship in SPN is incest, people seem a lot readier to admit their kinks in the fandom.

It's a big ball of crazy, that fandom, it's true. But it's so big that I'm sure you could find a little niche corner to spread your kinky tendrils out in.

[(Anonymous)]

As long as the siblings are in the same age range (No older/under aged stuff) then I don't see the problem.

[(Anonymous)]

Not just to the OP:

Honest question, how would this actually work in reality?

Do you envisage RP'ing as RL/fictional siblings that you ship? Would you simply be calling each other 'brother' and 'sister'?

I'm genuinely curious; it's not my kink, but I can imagine daddy/daughter etc. scenarios because of the power dynamic, but I can't see what's significant about a sibling relationship other than the fact that they are siblings, and so I can't imagine how it would play out. How would you show rather than tell, as it were?

[(Anonymous)]

I have the same fictional kink and am female. Weirdly enough, though, I don't like it in connection to any of my fandoms, only in original erotic fiction..

I'm also very skeptical about exploring the kink in real life. I mean, the idea turns me on like hell but I'm wary of a) telling a rl partner about it or b) hooking up with somebody solely based on the shared kink.

So I tend to keep it fictional, keep it RP's with strangers online. And I'm pretty happy that way, but I feel for you and understand why you might want more. It's not easy, having a taboo kink..

I'd just say this: don't let your kink consume you or you'll be even more unhappy. There's lots of fun sex to be had without it hitting this specific kink..

[kallanda_lee]

That's probably not the worst strategy, you know. Though keep in mind not everyone wants to play out the kinks they enjoy in fandom.

[(Anonymous)]

I am female and okay with it. Just so you don't feel alone.

[eaten_by_bears]

I'm sure your fellow incest kinksters won't mind having more fic to read. I wouldn't treat it as a dating site, but that's definitely a good way to meet people that share your interest.

I don't really respect your attitude about the 'gross guys looking for a baby daughter.' You have your generally scorned kink, and they have theirs. None of you are any grosser than the others.

Also, *hugs*. It's hard to feel alone at the holidays. You're definitely not the only one, and you'll find your people if you keep trying.

TRIGGER WARING FOR INCEST, PLEASE

[(Anonymous)]

There's something about this secret that really squicks me, and I think it's because I'm a survivor of brother-sister incestual abuse that started when I was under the age of 10. I guess it's because there are probably some people who write brother-sister incest as part of their coping mechanism/healing process, the same way some rape survivors will write rape fantasy - because it's something we can control. So you might be approaching someone who shares your same kink, or you might instead be approaching someone who is still recovering from their trauma.

There are power imbalances between siblings, though they may not appear as great as between parent/child. My brothers were still stronger, bigger, and more readily believed by my parents, not to mention they was supposed to be people I could trust but instead I had to live in the same house with them for years dealing with the abuse because, hey, where's an eight year old girl supposed to go?

(Also - I'm surprised that no one else has mentioned anything about trigger warnings.)
(And I'm not sorry for harshing on someone's kink.)

[queerwolf]

It's a kink of mine too, but I prefer it in original fiction and not my fandoms. I think your idea of writing fic for it might help you meet friends at least.

We can be friends, Nonny

[lunabee34]

:)

Incest is not my preferred kink, but I have read and enjoyed plenty of incest fic before.

[velvet_mace]

TBH I'm not sure why you are trying to mix your RL search for a girlfriend with your kink for incest. Even if you find a woman, she won't be your actual sister. And that family feeling will eventually come when you've been with her long enough.

But if you are looking, I'd suggest you go to various sci-fi, anime cons, role playing communities, and other places online and off where female fandom nerds hang out and find some women who just enjoy fannish activities. She may not share your kink for fictional brother/sister incest, but she will be familiar enough with kinks not to judge you for it. Pick a character with a suspiciously close relationship with his sister and role play him.

But in general go looking for a woman not a prop for your kink.

[harp]

1. You could always look for RP partners who would want to RP it. Just make sure you clarify what aspects of the relationship you'd want to explore (psychological factor, forbidden factor, options for the would-be couple, ect) or else you'll might end up with just a bunch of people thinking you want strictly smut RP. Unless that's what you want; I don't know. It sounds like an RP that would have potential. I'd hear it out if someone proposed it to me in a non-smuttastic way.

2. I realize you might not want to "out" yourself, so I'll just mention that I have recently uploaded all five books of V.C Andrews' Dollanganger series and I'm going to put links onto my DW on January First. It might sate your interest.

[fuchsiascreams]

If it makes you feel any better, I met my boyfriend online, and we happen to share the exact same fetish (pregnancy). We've been dating for eight years now. It can happen, OP. Trust me. I'm positive you will find somebody one day who will roleplay these things with you and not judge you for them. It happened to me, so I'm confident it can happen for you.

Send me a PM, OP

[deadcellredux]

No really-- I will be an accepting friend!

[(Anonymous)]

I'm a woman and it's not my kink, but at the same time, I don't have a problem with consensual siblingcest. If we were dating and you wanted to roleplay it, I would.