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Re: ayrt
(Anonymous) 2012-12-31 11:23 pm (UTC)(link)This is different because TO OP IT IS NOT FICTIONAL. He (of course it's a guy why am I not surprised) wants to do this IN REAL LIFE. NOT IN FICTION IN ACTUAL FACT. He tries to cover how bad this is (I wouldn't say dude is evil, but he's certainly mentally disordered) by saying he's squicked by the pedos looking for jailbait.
Unfortunately (IMO) the "anything goes" and complete lack of monitoring of peoples' children on the Internet, is what is propagating this idea that "everything is OK everywhere at any time on the Internet as long as it falls out of your brain onto the keyboard" that, as OP's screed demonstrates, is starting to bleed over into the general population, and leading to unacceptable permissiveness in general society.
Which a lot of us (I suspect most of us ITT who have issues with these problems are adults, and the ones with these problems (which they are incorrectly being conditioned by their peer groups to believe is OK), are children, who just don't understand the power dynamics of sexual politics, nor why there are social boundaries of acceptable and unacceptable sexual acts for a reason.
So that's why there are at least three of us in this thread taking the hard line and saying, this is definitely not OK, and if you think it is, you've either been brainwashed by the far too permissive attitude towards perversion and deviance on the Internet, or alternately, you're just not old enough yet to see how delusional you are to think that this is in any way kosher IN REAL LIFE SITUATIONS.
Re: ayrt
(Anonymous) 2012-12-31 11:36 pm (UTC)(link)Unless you think actors that play murderers are actual murderers. Or anyone that plays a video game involving killing someone.
Look, as I've said SEVERAL times, I was molested as a kid. I'm not saying actual child abuse is okay. It is absolutely not okay. But this is not actual child abuse. This is someone sleeping with an adult and roleplaying.
Oh, and for the record, I'm 25, so no, I'm not a kid that doesn't know any better. I'm just old enough to understand that there's a difference between roleplaying and actual abuse.
Re: ayrt
(Anonymous) 2012-12-31 11:58 pm (UTC)(link)NAYRT
(Anonymous) 2013-01-01 12:30 am (UTC)(link)Re: ayrt
(Anonymous) 2013-01-01 12:10 am (UTC)(link)If you do think that, then you are being consistent, and you should probably take it up with them.
If you do not think that, then you are being inconsistent and making irrational judgments.
If, on the other hand, you are arguing that a constant diet of fictional incest will lead young impressionable internet users not to realize someone is abusing them -- that is a valid concern and deserves to be discussed. Say that, instead of condemning everyone with a particular sexual kink as mentally disturbed or evil.
Re: ayrt
(Anonymous) 2013-01-01 01:06 am (UTC)(link)I guess I meet your criteria of consistent -- and I am also arguing that a constant diet of perversions on the Internet will not only normalize such things in the minds of impressionable children...when they grow up and become adults, such things could very well become normalized IN REAL LIFE due to not being fought hard enough against on the Internet.
The fact that you've so normalized these things in your own mind, that my opinion is treated as condemnatory, just illustrates my point.
DA
(Anonymous) 2013-01-01 02:39 am (UTC)(link)no subject
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