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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-12-30 06:19 pm

[ SECRET POST #2189 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2189 ⌋

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DA

(Anonymous) 2012-12-31 08:48 am (UTC)(link)
I was molested when I was 7. However, I don't think that someone who has an interest in fictional incest and would like to roleplay it out with a consenting adult that isn't even related to him is a "Jerry Sandusky."

Would I want to roleplay out being a victim of sexual abuse with someone else in a bedroom situation? no, I doubt it. But would I automatically assume that anyone that's interested in doing that with a consenting adult in the privacy of their home is going to go out and molest a child like I was? No. I wouldn't want to hear the gory details about it, but sometimes fantasy really is just fantasy. For other examples, I don't think someone who plays a game with multiple options and always chooses the violent, angry routes is someone who will actually become a killer in real life. Nor do I think actors that can portray villains well are actually evil, or that someone who can portray a gay man is actually gay (or that someone that can play a straight man is actually straight), etc.
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[personal profile] ellie_oops 2012-12-31 12:50 pm (UTC)(link)
I don't agree.

Personally, I think that someone who has a fantasy of incest abuse
(it is abuse, not a 'lifestyle choice'), raping or molesting others has a little seed of evil in them. Even if they never actually engage in those activities irl, that bit of darkness is still in them.

Sorry, I'm not going to sit back and give the op of the secret a special snowflake pat on the back because they take enjoyment in an abusive relationship.

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(Anonymous) 2012-12-31 02:25 pm (UTC)(link)
You understand how ridiculous this 'little seed of evil' thing is, right?

Fantasy =/= reality, please make a distinction.

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(Anonymous) 2012-12-31 06:16 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm not sure where I come down in this discussion, because it's a complicated issue with a lot of feelings on all sides, but -- it is blatantly obvious that more people oppose you in this debate than just the OP. You're not doing your argument any favors by pretending otherwise.
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[personal profile] ellie_oops 2012-12-31 08:00 pm (UTC)(link)
You are correct, I shouldn't have automatically assumed they were the op.

However, I will not stand by while people back pat themselves for enjoying a form of abuse. It trivializes the victims and diminishes the severity of the act. Someone who gets off on the victimization of others should not be praised and coddled. And yes, incest is abuse, it has a perpetrator and a victim, and I can guarantee you that the victim is often groomed to believe it's consensual.

I have no patience, sympathy or understanding for anyone that believes otherwise.

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(Anonymous) 2012-12-31 05:32 pm (UTC)(link)
"a little seed of evil"? wtf?
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[personal profile] ellie_oops 2012-12-31 07:36 pm (UTC)(link)
Yeah, anyone who thinks incest is okay and masturbates to it is fucked up.

Sorry to burst your bubble, but some sexual kinks are derived from a bad place. You would never tell a molester that their desire for children is just a harmless kink. But maybe you would, idk, if you think incest is okay, you obviously don't have that line.

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(Anonymous) 2012-12-31 10:10 pm (UTC)(link)
yeah, what is context



also any form of incest kink in fantasy = molesting children



thanks for letting me know
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[personal profile] ellie_oops 2012-12-31 10:45 pm (UTC)(link)
Congrats on your use of mental gymnastics to justify something so horrible.

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(Anonymous) 2012-12-31 06:03 pm (UTC)(link)
Seed of evil? Oh wow.
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[personal profile] ellie_oops 2012-12-31 07:36 pm (UTC)(link)
Yup. Seed of evil. Same as molesters. Unless you think that is okay too.

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(Anonymous) 2012-12-31 06:04 pm (UTC)(link)
um
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[personal profile] ellie_oops 2012-12-31 07:37 pm (UTC)(link)
what?

Do you need me to explain how incest is wrong?

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(Anonymous) 2012-12-31 06:12 pm (UTC)(link)
lol you have not the slightest idea what roles people into BDSM play then. It's more than a bit of spanking and fluffy handcuffs and a bit of a dirty talk. Don't attempt to find out, you will end up calling everyone a rapist or a pedophile.
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[personal profile] ellie_oops 2012-12-31 07:42 pm (UTC)(link)
Not talking about BDSM. Talking about people who get off on wanting siblings to have sex with each other. Two completely different things, you should look it what BDSM really is, because I'm pretty sure they would frown upon incest.

Step away from the tumblr, it's filling your mind with the idea that things like liking incest makes you a special snowflake.

ayrt

(Anonymous) 2012-12-31 08:04 pm (UTC)(link)
Shut the fuck up bitch, you have NO RIGHT to tell me how I should feel about MY ABUSE. YOU ARE A HORRIBLE PERSON FOR DOING SO
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[personal profile] ellie_oops 2012-12-31 08:12 pm (UTC)(link)
Excuse me? Where did I tell you how to feel?

Everyone deals with their shit differently. I for instance am not going to put up with someone getting off on what happened to me.

If you don't have a problem with it, that's fine. I, however, am not going to give someone who romanticizes a part fucked up part of my childhood a pass.

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(Anonymous) 2012-12-31 09:49 pm (UTC)(link)
I have an incest kink.

You are telling me that one of the ways I cope with my abuse makes me an evil person.

so yes, you're telling me exactly how I should feel.
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[personal profile] ellie_oops 2012-12-31 09:59 pm (UTC)(link)
Honestly, you should probably talk about your coping methods with your therapist not some random on F!S.

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(Anonymous) 2012-12-31 11:13 pm (UTC)(link)
Incest is not always 'abuse', period. My paternal grandparents are first cousins. They stayed married all of their lives until my GF passed away from pancreatic cancer. My GM still mourns his death, because he was her soulmate. You have no fucking clue what you're on about. I really hope you're a troll, because god damn you're ignorant.
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[personal profile] ellie_oops 2012-12-31 11:17 pm (UTC)(link)
uuuhhhh.... yeah, not touching this one.

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(Anonymous) 2012-12-31 11:23 pm (UTC)(link)
You do realize it's legal for first cousins to get married most places, right?

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(Anonymous) 2013-01-01 12:36 am (UTC)(link)
I suppose it does cause a problem when you're faced with examples counter to your own insane argument, eh?

It's a cultural thing, and you know what? They were consenting adults. They had one child, and if they hadn't been together I wouldn't exist. So you can kindly take your bullshit and piss off.

(Anonymous) 2013-01-01 08:08 pm (UTC)(link)
+1000

A lot of the sweeping statements made in American spaces reflect their staggering ignorance, tbqh.

First cousin marriages are considered ideal in some places, and you know what? Those countries have a lower incidence of genetic defects in the population at large, because anything truly show-stopping did not produce viable offspring.

Geneticist anon finds this fascinating.