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Re: DA
Personally, I think that someone who has a fantasy of incest abuse
(it is abuse, not a 'lifestyle choice'), raping or molesting others has a little seed of evil in them. Even if they never actually engage in those activities irl, that bit of darkness is still in them.
Sorry, I'm not going to sit back and give the op of the secret a special snowflake pat on the back because they take enjoyment in an abusive relationship.
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(Anonymous) 2012-12-31 02:25 pm (UTC)(link)Fantasy =/= reality, please make a distinction.
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(Anonymous) 2012-12-31 06:16 pm (UTC)(link)Re: DA
However, I will not stand by while people back pat themselves for enjoying a form of abuse. It trivializes the victims and diminishes the severity of the act. Someone who gets off on the victimization of others should not be praised and coddled. And yes, incest is abuse, it has a perpetrator and a victim, and I can guarantee you that the victim is often groomed to believe it's consensual.
I have no patience, sympathy or understanding for anyone that believes otherwise.
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(Anonymous) 2012-12-31 08:39 pm (UTC)(link)I'm not sure whether you're arguing that some realities are so bad that even fantasy is unallowable, or that no fantasy can ever be distinct from the reality. If it's the former, I have to argue that everyone has to make that call for themselves, and as long as they don't hurt anyone else it's no one else's business. If it's the latter, I don't know whether I agree with you, which is why I'm not sure where I land on this question.
The pedant in me must protest that consensual incest (between adults) is theoretically possible. It may be vanishingly rare, but even if it has never actually happened, it is theoretically possible.
If nothing else, there's the case of the siblings who meet as adults and are mutually unaware that they are siblings. If everyone involved is unaware of the relationship, it's not any more abuse than it would be without the biological connection.
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(Anonymous) 2012-12-31 05:32 pm (UTC)(link)Re: DA
Sorry to burst your bubble, but some sexual kinks are derived from a bad place. You would never tell a molester that their desire for children is just a harmless kink. But maybe you would, idk, if you think incest is okay, you obviously don't have that line.
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(Anonymous) 2012-12-31 10:10 pm (UTC)(link)also any form of incest kink in fantasy = molesting children
thanks for letting me know
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(Anonymous) 2012-12-31 06:04 pm (UTC)(link)Re: DA
Do you need me to explain how incest is wrong?
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(Anonymous) 2012-12-31 06:12 pm (UTC)(link)Re: DA
Step away from the tumblr, it's filling your mind with the idea that things like liking incest makes you a special snowflake.
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(Anonymous) 2012-12-31 08:04 pm (UTC)(link)Re: ayrt
Everyone deals with their shit differently. I for instance am not going to put up with someone getting off on what happened to me.
If you don't have a problem with it, that's fine. I, however, am not going to give someone who romanticizes a part fucked up part of my childhood a pass.
Re: ayrt
(Anonymous) 2012-12-31 09:49 pm (UTC)(link)You are telling me that one of the ways I cope with my abuse makes me an evil person.
so yes, you're telling me exactly how I should feel.
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(Anonymous) 2013-01-01 12:36 am (UTC)(link)It's a cultural thing, and you know what? They were consenting adults. They had one child, and if they hadn't been together I wouldn't exist. So you can kindly take your bullshit and piss off.
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(Anonymous) 2013-01-01 08:08 pm (UTC)(link)A lot of the sweeping statements made in American spaces reflect their staggering ignorance, tbqh.
First cousin marriages are considered ideal in some places, and you know what? Those countries have a lower incidence of genetic defects in the population at large, because anything truly show-stopping did not produce viable offspring.
Geneticist anon finds this fascinating.