[ SECRET POST #2192 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2192 ⌋

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Comments

Re: Here's some advice

[inkmage]

Other people have pointed this out, but I have anecdotal evidence: it depends greatly on who these friends are.

I have one friend online whom I've never met in person. I'm fairly sure he doesn't know what I look like because I don't use my picture as a profile pic. And yet he's be there as a constant for... at least two or three years now.

Whereas I had a friend I saw every day, whom I trusted above almost everyone else, who had a standing invitation to my house (and I to hers), and one day she decided to "reinvent" herself and abruptly told me, "I don't think we can be friends anymore." And that was the end of that on her side of it. Eventually I gave up too.

There are two morals here. One is, distance doesn't matter as much as you seem to think it does. Two, one simply cannot trust anyone my age with anything more strenuous than showing up on time, and possibly not even that.

Re: Here's some advice

[(Anonymous)]

You might want to change 2 to 'You can't trust anyone'. I've met people in their 80's who will turn on someone - someone they supposedly care about - at the drop of a hat.

Re: Here's some advice

[(Anonymous)]

I'm sorry you have met those people then. Non-backstabbing people exist.

Re: Here's some advice

[inkmage]

That's good. I was biding my time and hoping things would be better once I hit my 20s/got into college, but I guess some people are just assholes no matter the age. And on the flip side, some people are wonderful, too.

I think we've all learned a valuable lesson.

Re: Here's some advice

[(Anonymous)]

I'm not so good with the showing up on time thing, but I'm pretty good at the other friendship things like listening and being supportive.

Re: Here's some advice

[inkmage]

Then you are an awesome person and you should never stop being that awesome.