[ SECRET POST #2192 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2192 ⌋

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Comments

Re: Here's some advice

[(Anonymous)]

Possibly my answer made no sense to you because your comment itself wasn't clear.

Lucky you to have met a fellow spirit in uni. I studied in uni too, worked in different places for 14 years without meeting anyone who shared any of my fandoms (and I'm talking about things as diverse as anime, comics, TV shows or music). Or was even in a fandom the way I see it.

The closer I met were gamer / computer geeks, but who didn't have anything much to say out of work - and weren't interested to hear, either.

Talking about my hobbies only resulted in people thinking I was weird. Some were polite about it, but that was all.

I don't mind much, but it also means I wasn't going to talk at large about said hobbies unless I was asked about it. When some people think you're a snob for something as mundane as visiting museums, or crazy-obsessive for travelling out of town for a gig, you know it's best not to start explaining fan-fiction.

It's only in the last 3 years that I met people at work I could have actual in-depth discussions with, about a variety of subjects. They're not in fandom, but they're tolerant enough and interesting enough that we can get past weather chat. Still, I can count them on one hand.

So making a lot of efforts to talk to people around you will only work if there *are* people around you who are like that, and it's not the case everywhere.
And actually, if people are interesting and open-minded, it's not really an effort to talk with them.

Tl;dr : my point is : if it's a strain and an effort to talk with someone, it's likely that this person will never be a friend. And then you're wasting your time if you go out of your way to hang out with them.
Hang out at the coffee machine at work or speak to while in classes, yeah, sure.
Go out after work? Tried that many times, and quite frankly, no matter how hard I try, I just pretend I don't feel out of place, and wonder if the people around me do enjoy it, because I find it hard to believe.
So I only do it if I think that it will cause me more harm if I don't do it, socially speaking...

I guess you don't realize your luck that people aren't as judgemental about fandoms in your area / environment. But then you are still in uni, and it's still acceptable for a young adult to have "silly" hobbies.