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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-01-03 06:35 pm

[ SECRET POST #2193 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2193 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

01.
[GunnerKrigg Court]


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02.
[The Avengers]


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03.
[French & Saunders]


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04.
[X-Men/Marvel Universe]


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05.
[Tron: Uprising]


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06.
[Kagaku Ninjatai Gatchaman]


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07.
[How I Met Your Mother]


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08.
[The X-Files/Fox Mulder]


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09.
[Homestuck]


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10.
[True Grit]


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11.
[Saya no Uta]


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12.
[The Silmarillion]


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13.
[Homestuck]


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14.
[Supernatural]


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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 01 pages, 015 secrets from Secret Submission Post #313.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Re: Am I Bisexual?

(Anonymous) 2013-01-04 12:10 am (UTC)(link)
As a bisexual woman who has been in relationships with both women and men, but has now chosen to wait until I meet a man to marry, for similar, if not the same, sort of reasons as your own (mine is more religious than cultural, but there is some overlap) I can tell you that this is a tricky subject.

I identify as bisexual. I AM bisexual. However, I accept and acknowledge that I have made the choice to no longer act on my attraction to other women. As a result, I do not expect to be accorded the same status in the LGBT community as I once did. In many ways this is completely right, however, it can be hurtful when people so not understand that I can and do still find homophobic comments painful. Personally, I view myself as fortunate. I am lucky in that I am in a position to make that choice.

So, yes, OP, you may be bisexual, regardless of whether or not you act on it, but you are likely to encounter prejudice, from both sides if you don't. I think that you're probably best served by taking it slow, and not rushing into coming out, if you're not sure it's what you want to do.