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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-01-03 06:35 pm

[ SECRET POST #2193 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2193 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

01.
[GunnerKrigg Court]


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02.
[The Avengers]


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03.
[French & Saunders]


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04.
[X-Men/Marvel Universe]


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05.
[Tron: Uprising]


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06.
[Kagaku Ninjatai Gatchaman]


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07.
[How I Met Your Mother]


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08.
[The X-Files/Fox Mulder]


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09.
[Homestuck]


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10.
[True Grit]


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11.
[Saya no Uta]


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12.
[The Silmarillion]


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13.
[Homestuck]


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14.
[Supernatural]


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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 01 pages, 015 secrets from Secret Submission Post #313.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.
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Re: Am I Bisexual?

[personal profile] kallanda_lee 2013-01-04 01:43 am (UTC)(link)
The problem is we can't tell you if you are, only you can figure that out.

We can only tell you it's okay either way.

I think there are two aspects to this: how you feel and how you identify.
Let me elaborate on this: I've know people in my life who definitely exhibit bisexual behaviour or have these feelings, but identify as either gay or straight because they feel more connected to the one or the other. Then there are those who proudly claim the bisexual label and consider it their identity.

I think, in any case, it's not healthy to suppress your feelings, but that doesn't mean you need to be flag-waving in parades, or somehow actively become a part of lgbt communities (you CAN, and to a lot of people that's wonderfully liberating,but you're not obligated anything).

(Also, btw, you're queer "enough" if you consider yourself to be. There's no percentage of queerness you need to present with to get your membership card).

I'd say that it's probably worthwhile to figure this out for yourself, if only for your self-development, peace of mind and to be sure you won't regret missed opportunity later.

Whether or not you'll act on it will be entirely your choice - but it's always better to make an informed choice.

But hey, that's only my two cents.