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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-01-04 06:36 pm

[ SECRET POST #2194 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2194 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[The Hobbit]


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03.
[Good Omens / Girls Next Door]


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05.
[The Hobbit, Thorin Oakenshield]


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07. [SPOILERS for Wreck-it Ralph]
http://www.abload.de/img/974137-king_candywrecfbk7z.png
[linked because porn, illustrated]


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08. [SPOILERS for The Office]



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09. [SPOILERS for Monsters, Inc.]



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10. [SPOILERS for The Hobbit]



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11. [WARNING for incest]



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12. [WARNING for suicide]

[One Direction]


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13. [WARNING for shotacon]



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14. [WARNING for sexual harassment?]



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15. [WARNING for depression, suicide]



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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 00 pages, 000 secrets from Secret Submission Post #313.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Bummed.

(Anonymous) 2013-01-05 12:01 am (UTC)(link)
Recently, on one of my fics, I'm being bombarded by a couple of trolls that, for some reason, are fighting with me on an older fic I wrote years ago. I've talked to them about the fic and done anything and everything I can to appease them, but all they keep doing is belittling my fic instead of moving on, turning it into a SJW issue.

I hate dealing with trolls. I've dealt with them before and all they do is wear me out.
tamabonotchi: (Default)

Re: Bummed.

[personal profile] tamabonotchi 2013-01-05 12:03 am (UTC)(link)
Ignore them.
You're not supposed to respond to trolls, you won't be getting anywhere feeding a troll whose sole purpose is to get a rise out of you and watch you get upset.

Re: Bummed.

(Anonymous) 2013-01-05 12:04 am (UTC)(link)
At a certain level, all you can do is ignore someone, if they're sufficiently committed and sufficiently hateful not to be reasoned with. If someone really decides that they don't like you and they want to make you have a bad day, or whatever, there's nothing you can really do to stop them. You just have to let it go. Just be polite, don't engage, and move on.

Examine yourself and your conscience, obviously, don't just ignore them, but if you're confident you're basically in the right on this one, there's only so much you can do. Trolls is trolls, trolls is always going to be trolls, and there's no real response to that.

Re: Bummed.

(Anonymous) 2013-01-05 12:08 am (UTC)(link)
so...don't?

I mean, I understand, because it's difficult not to engage, but seriously, just...walk away. It's one thing if somebody wants to have a serious discussion, but trolls aren't there for the discussion, they're there to get a rise out of you, and you took the bait. Best bet is just ignoring them because they can gloat all they want about how they've "won," but they were going to do that anyway. Save yourself the time and headache and ignore them right off the bat.

Re: Bummed.

(Anonymous) 2013-01-05 12:10 am (UTC)(link)
See, this is why people need to spend more time on 4chan, so they can learn how to identify and ignore trolls easily and quickly.

(don't actually spend more time on 4chan tho)

Re: Bummed.

(Anonymous) 2013-01-05 12:11 am (UTC)(link)
AYRT: But how will I know if I'm trolled? lol.

Re: Bummed.

(Anonymous) 2013-01-05 12:15 am (UTC)(link)
Well, sure, you'd know that, but the knowledge comes at a heavy price: spending a lot of time on a message board that's full of trolls and that just sucks a lot of the time.

If you could have, like, a 4chan training montage, and just go on there for like 3 or 4 minutes while some awesome 80s guitar song plays, and then be super good at identifying trolls, that'd probably be the ideal way to do it.
lunabee34: (Default)

Re: Bummed.

[personal profile] lunabee34 2013-01-05 02:51 am (UTC)(link)
Ahahaahahahahahaahahha.

Somebody should make that vid. May I nominate "we're Not Gonna Take It?" LOL

oh You're So Condescending
your Gall Is Never Ending
we Don't Want Nothin', Not A Thing From You
your Life Is Trite And Jaded
boring And Confiscated
if That's Your Best, Your Best Won't Do



Re: Bummed.

(Anonymous) 2013-01-05 12:14 am (UTC)(link)
I've talked to them about the fic and done anything and everything I can to appease them,

This was a big mistake (but you probably already knew that?).

Just block them, if you can do it on the website it's happening on. If you can't, contact the support for that website and tell them that you are being harassed.


You don't "deal" with trolls. You kick them out and/or ignore them.

Re: Bummed.

(Anonymous) 2013-01-05 12:25 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah, that's what I did--sent an abuse report (I can't block them on the site I was on, but if I could, I would in a heartbeat). And I'm ignoring them until I get a reply from the abuse team there.

Re: Bummed.

(Anonymous) 2013-01-05 12:26 am (UTC)(link)
this is the best course of action, yeah

sorry you can't block them :( that should be an option in more websites
kallanda_lee: (Default)

Re: Bummed.

[personal profile] kallanda_lee 2013-01-05 12:30 am (UTC)(link)
DO NOT ENGAGE. I REPEAT: DO NOT ENGAGE. If you actually admit "guilt" or apologise, they will only come after you more. Ignore and move along.
dethtoll: (Default)

Re: Bummed.

[personal profile] dethtoll 2013-01-05 01:02 am (UTC)(link)
SJW trolls are best ignored.
thene: Happy Ponyo looking up from the seabed (Default)

Re: Bummed.

[personal profile] thene 2013-01-05 01:21 am (UTC)(link)
Eh. I recently decided to delete a very old fic of mine because there was female character bashing in it and as I can't condone that any more, I don't want it to be on the internet. But no one forced me into that decision. If YOU believe in what you wrote, there's nothing they can do about it. Don't appease them, just let the text stand; nothing they say will ever change it.