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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-01-04 06:36 pm

[ SECRET POST #2194 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2194 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[The Hobbit]


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03.
[Good Omens / Girls Next Door]


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05.
[The Hobbit, Thorin Oakenshield]


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07. [SPOILERS for Wreck-it Ralph]
http://www.abload.de/img/974137-king_candywrecfbk7z.png
[linked because porn, illustrated]


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08. [SPOILERS for The Office]



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09. [SPOILERS for Monsters, Inc.]



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10. [SPOILERS for The Hobbit]



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11. [WARNING for incest]



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12. [WARNING for suicide]

[One Direction]


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13. [WARNING for shotacon]



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14. [WARNING for sexual harassment?]



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15. [WARNING for depression, suicide]



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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 00 pages, 000 secrets from Secret Submission Post #313.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

(Anonymous) 2013-01-05 05:57 am (UTC)(link)
People, most people, have always got some kind of issues, that's just life. Maybe I'm in a weird world but almost all my friends/myself have struggled with varying degrees of mental stuff (depression, anxiety, to....). Life can be fuckin crazy, and I understand how frustrating it can be when people are struggling or it seems like there's a "negative" mood in the air.

I think what other people have said here is true- know that your not ness. "responsible" for someone and that it's fine to take a break/ emotionally detach yourself from the corner you're in for your own well being if you feel like you're getting dragged too far down.

Still, I think it should be said that you being accessible as a friend to someone who needs a helping hand is really fucking admirable. It means a lot when someone can talk to a friend about mental health stuff, esp. when they're outside of whatever current situation is happening. And even if they don't necessarily acknowledge it at the time.

I'm not saying that fandom is the best place for those discussions to take place. But also keep in mind that maybe fore some people, among fandom/internet friends may be one of the only places they feel "safe" enough to talk about their issues, or the place where they feel like they can reach out about problems they otherwise might not be able to.

If these people are important to you as friends, I wouldn't abandon them. But finding relaxing spots in fandom/the internet is important, too.