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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-01-06 03:26 pm

[ SECRET POST #2196 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2196 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2013-01-06 09:04 pm (UTC)(link)
Um the best advice I can give is "Don't be an asshole."

No really, you have control over your actions, you don't have to be rude to other people in fandom.

If something is bothering you, turn of the computer, try doing something relaxing, and don't come back until you feel better.

Online interaction gives you that benefit, it's not like real life where you need to interact in the moment, you can always leave your computer, even if you're chatting in real time you can still leave.

And it's okay if you slip up sometimes and end up being an ass (I'm rude online sometimes when I've had a bad day) but just try to be even nicer the next day.

Once you start training yourself to be more relaxed about it all, you'll find it will naturally not bother you as much. Fandom is supposed to be fun and it is not worth the rage.
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[personal profile] elaminator 2013-01-06 10:51 pm (UTC)(link)
This is excellent advice nonny. +1.
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[personal profile] blueonblue 2013-01-07 12:58 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah, turning off the computer and walking away is usually a good choice. Ragey capslock doesn't make it all better.