case: (Default)
Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-01-06 03:26 pm

[ SECRET POST #2196 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2196 ⌋

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intrigueing: (gandalf)

[personal profile] intrigueing 2013-01-06 11:01 pm (UTC)(link)
Basically, the best way is to put inertia on your mouth. When you feel the urge to say something, try to stop, reflect on whether the comment is nasty, and weigh whether it'll be of any help or use whatsoever if you say it. If it's pointless bitchiness, just keep your mouth shut. If it's useful bitchiness, try to rephrase it to be more tactful.

Yes, it's way, WAY easier said than done, but if you tell yourself this and try to keep it in mind, it's statistically more likely that you'll catch yourself before you say stuff you'll regret.