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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-01-06 03:26 pm

[ SECRET POST #2196 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2196 ⌋

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Secrets Left to Post: 03 pages, 060 secrets from Secret Submission Post #314.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 1 - not!fandom ], [ 1 2 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ], [ 1 - empty image with a text comment ].
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(Anonymous) 2013-01-07 02:09 am (UTC)(link)
I'm a fairly laid-back person myself, but I have some anger issues and there are things that make me fly off the handle. I've found a solution that lets me fire off about whatever's pissing me off without involving other people:
1) Accept that people generally hold on to their own opinions and getting angry at them, however wrong you think they are, is not going to change anything. Civil discussion is one thing, but if the conversation isn't going in that direction, just drop it. It's not worth your time.
2) Realize that being negative at shit only really harms yourself. If it's something stupid, let it go. It's not worth the energy.
3) If you really can't let it go, make a private ranty journal and let off steam. I have an f-locked journal on LJ that I use to bitch about all sorts of shit, from stupid fandom complaints to bigger meatspace problems. I figure that if I can articulate my complaint and have it make sense, then it's a legitimate complaint and I have a right to be pissed about it; if I can't articulate it, then I'm just being petty and stupid and while it may still feel good to bitch a bit about it, I can accept that it's stupid and insignificant, and I stop letting it bother me so much. Or I try, anyway.

The point is, being online means you don't have to say everything that comes to mind. Relax, take a chill pill, and try to assume that other people are generally pretty cool, even if they like different shit.