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⌈ Secret Post #2197 ⌋

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Comments

Re: 'Spanking' issue

[(Anonymous)]

I can't say for anything beyond my own family, but out of my generation? Yeah, I was the only one spanked, and I'm fairly certain it wasn't just my family that had that happen. Plus, there are a ton of articles talking about how spanking ~ruins~ kids.

Re: 'Spanking' issue

[(Anonymous)]

Huh. I'm twenty five and most of the kids I grew up around/my family were hit as kids.

Re: 'Spanking' issue

[ill_omened]

Honestly, we seem the sort of dividing marker.

It was the norm among our generation, but with my (noticeably younger) siblings it just seems substantially less common.

Anecdata and all that, but still.

Re: 'Spanking' issue

[(Anonymous)]

The anon above the one you replied to

This pretty much. I'm 24 [almost 25], but my cousins are all 8+ years younger than I am, so there's a pretty big gap for things to have changed.

Re: 'Spanking' issue

[(Anonymous)]

I don't know. My boyfriend has a cousin that is nine years old. He lies, steals, hits people, bites them, etc, and he gets smacked a lot. All it does is make him lie and freak out when he's caught doing something he shouldn't/stealing his aunt's money, etc. It doesn't stop him, all he does when he's hit is scream like a banshee for hours. And the next day he's off doing his crap again. He's seeing a shrink, too, and that hasn't helped his issues either.

Re: 'Spanking' issue

[(Anonymous)]

AYRT

...What? I was talking about there being a big enough gap between the ages of my cousins and myself for there to be a large change on the societal stance about spanking, not if it works or not. Point in fact, this particular part of the thread no one has commented on if it works or not - just that there have been studies on it *saying* it's bad, not that it was a personal belief held by that person.

Also, for the record [and since you're taking this as a 'SPANKING IS...' thing anyways] the studies actually stated that spanking was found to be more likely to make kids aggressive.