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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-01-07 06:25 pm

[ SECRET POST #2197 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2197 ⌋

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Re: 'Spanking' issue

(Anonymous) 2013-01-08 01:37 pm (UTC)(link)
I live in a place where spanking your child is illegal and has been for quite some time.

And our children aren't any less well behaved than my grandparents generation who got spanked.

My parents punished me with loss of all or parts of my allowance when I was old enough to get that and either just getting told what I did wrong and why I shouldn't do it again. Or just getting sent to my room for the rest of the day or just a couple of hours.

And oddly enough I was polite and didn't do a lot of things I wasn't allowed to do: without the threat of pain hanging over my head, instead I had the threat of my parents being disappointed in me or the more shallow reason when I was a teenagers and hormones where running wild: I liked my spending money and I didn't want to loose 'em.

And my friends had mostly the same rules and punishments as I did, and most of us didn't break most of them and if we did we only did it once.

I can't speak of anyone being spanked though: because if you got spanked here it would go under abuse and would be illegal and something that children would be told to not tell their friends.